However, when developing a personal mission statement, you can define value to mean “Something I hold valuable”, implying that you strive for that condition. They become your personal vision and mission. Continue reading Values Redefined
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More Great Interview Questions
I ran across some great interview questions. These are meant for you, the employer, to ask the interviewee. Of course, it is a good idea to have ready answers if you are the interviewee. The interviewer may have read this post.
Job Description for a Church External Volunteer Facilitator
This person would:
- Build and maintain relationships with local ministries and nonprofits outside of the congregation, primarily with the volunteer coordinators.
Continue reading Job Description for a Church External Volunteer Facilitator
Reflective Listening Responses
Reflective listening is one of the most important, if not the most important, skills you can develop. Here are some questions from God Space: Where Spiritual Conversations Happen Naturally:
Great Interview Questions
Vanessa Van Edwards has a great post on 10 behavioral interview questions.
They are:
- What is something you used to believe, but no longer believe?
- Who were the competitors at the last company you worked for and how did the company differentiate itself?
- Tell me about your best and worst days at work?
- If I called your current boss, what would they say about you?
- Are you working on anything exciting outside of work?
- You have two teleportation devices, where would you place them and why?
- Wait…Do you remember all of our names and what we talked about?
- If you didn’t have to work, why would you come into the office?
- Describe the last significant conflict you had at work and how you handled it>
- Is there something I should have asked and did not ask you?
Watch the video to find out why they are great and what answers you would like to hear.
How to Hold Mindful Conversations – Part 3
In two prior posts, here and here, we discussed ways to structure conversations, even everyday ad hoc conversations, to achieve your objectives. Every conversation is an opportunity to build relationships, to coordinate activities, to plan for the future, to sell your ideas, to get ideas, or to recap the past.
Today, we will discuss a method designed to start a conversation with nearly everyone, even strangers. It’s called the OSA method and it’s ripped from Marni Kinrys’ Wing Girl site. Continue reading How to Hold Mindful Conversations – Part 3
How to Hold Mindful Conversations – Part 1
Mindfulness is an important buzzword these days. Basically, Mindfulness is the basic human ability to be fully present, aware of where we are and what we’re doing, and not overly reactive or overwhelmed by what’s going on around us.
We each hold dozens of conversations, mostly mindless conversations, every day. These are wasted opportunities to build relationships or coordinate activities or to plan for the future or recap the past. It is possible to focus a conversation so that it has a meaningful result by using some simple techniques. It is possible to plan your conversations. And after a smidgeon of practice, you can apply these techniques with little or no effort. Continue reading How to Hold Mindful Conversations – Part 1
Diversity – Strategy or Goal
Diversity is the politically correct thing to emphasize. The word is popping up everywhere in annual reports and Diversity executives are being added daily with great fanfare.
But, is diversity a good thing, or a bad thing? Continue reading Diversity – Strategy or Goal
Again, why do we have salary secrecy?
I have written, actually ranted, several times about salary secrecy, starting with the information imbalance in hiring and how that is unjust and harms everyone.
Now David Burkus has added additional reasons, backed with data for not keeping pay secret. Continue reading Again, why do we have salary secrecy?
5 Critical Questions for Leaders
This summarizes Bill Hybels’ August 2011 presentation at the Willow Creek Association Global Leadership Summit. This summary comes from notes taken by Matthew Sherman and posted on his Website. Click here.
Bill Hybels discussed five critical questions a leader should ask himself or herself regarding their organizational leadership.
1. What is your current challenge level at work?
Hybels warned about being under-challenged and dangerously over-challenged for too long. If leaders allow themselves to be under-challenged, they will suffer from atrophy; physically, mentally, and spiritually. If an employee (especially an upcoming leader) is allowed to be under-challenged for too long a time, they will eventually leave.
Being dangerously over-challenged for too long a time will eventually lead to burnout. There are periods where being over-challenged is inevitable, but it’s important to gear down as soon as possible. He told a nearly tragic story from early in WCCC’s history where an employee attempted suicide.
2. What is the plan to deal with the challenging people in your organization?
Hybels introduced three other questions to address the critical question.
- How do you handle bad attitudes? Hybels said WCCC addresses a bad attitude as soon as it is seen to have become a trend. Once the attitude has been seen as a trend, the employee is addressed (“So what’s going on with your attitude lately?”, “Is there something going on that we can help with?”). After the employee has been addressed, they are given a 30-day pass. If the employee’s attitude has not been resolved after that period of time, further action is taken. A bad attitude can be poison for an organization. He also recommended if an organization does not have a method of dealing with an employee’s bad attitude, one should be discussed and developed.
- How do you handle under-performers? Again, Hybels said WCCC addresses an under performer as soon as it is seen to have become a trend. As before, the employee is addressed and a solution to the situation is attempted to be reached. Willow Creek gives an under performer three months to correct the situation. In his experience, most people who have traditionally been a good performer and slide into underperforming have a personal issue that needs to be resolved, which is why more time is given to resolve the situation. Again, Hybels recommended if an organization does not have a method of dealing with an employee’s under performance, one should be discussed and developed.
- How do you handle replacing a person who once fulfilled their role, but can’t keep up with the growth of the organization (the organization’s needs have surpassed the employee’s talents)? This is the hardest kind of challenging employee. This is a person who does not have any negative issues (attitudes or under performance), with the exception that expectations for the job tasks they have performed well on in the past have risen to the point they can no longer perform their job adequately. Willow Creek addresses this sort of issue and tries to resolve the problem over a six- to 12-month period. WCCC will do their best to relocate or accommodate the employee, but they will ultimately handle the issue if necessary. Even at the cost of a, “generous severance” package.
He described an exercise where department heads would draw a horizontal line and list their staff members in order of “keep” priority. The scenario presented was, in the event of a layoff of 50% of your employees, in what order would you list the employees of your department in order of importance to the team (highest importance on the left)? “The point of the exercise”, Hybels says, “is not to be cruel. It should first force management to think about the reality of a possible downsize due to economic situations, and second force them to think about the strengths and weaknesses of those on their teams.” If an employee is weak, why? How can these team members be encouraged in the areas they are weak in?
3. Are you naming, facing, and resolving the problems that exist in your organization?
Hybels asked if there were problems that were keeping the organization from achieving their goals. What are those problems? Are the leaders in the organization admitting that these problems exist? Are the leaders taking action to address and resolve the problems?
Hybels presented another exercise WCCC has used to address problems within the organization.
He presented a bell curve where the bottom left quadrant represented an idea or goal that was just starting (accelerating), the top left quadrant represented an idea or goal that had taken off and was rapidly growing (booming), the top right quadrant represented an idea or goal that had become old and worn out (declining), and the bottom right quadrant represented an idea or goal that had completely fallen off the radar (tanking).
The task of organizational leadership is to honestly and accurately assess the different ideas, goals, and missions of the organization and place them on the continuum. If goals were declining, or even tanking, what could be done to renew and revive those goals? Hybels said Willow Creek had made the commitment to never let a goal fall into the “tanking” quadrant. If it is a goal the organization wants to continue, the goal would have to be revitalized and renewed through planning and new implementation to return it to the “accelerating” quadrant.
4. When was the last time you examined the core of what your organization is about?
He presented a blank list with 5 spaces and asked, “What are five words that describe what your organization is about?”
Hybels stated that he and his team had spent months working on the five words for WCCC, but they were continuing to work on it. He challenged the audience to continually return to their organizations’ purpose to think about and renew the organization’s vision, mission, and goals.
5. Have you had your leadership bell rung recently?
Has anything you’ve read, seen, or heard made an impact on your leadership lately? Are you making excuses instead of creating bold, new solutions?
“A leader who is not continually growing and learning cannot remain a leader for long.”
Hybels ended on a positive note, “Make your next five years your best five years.”