Explanation: Don’t be in a hurry to impute bad motives on the part of others when things go wrong. Separate the facts from the stories. Reread the posts on Crucial Conversations and Difficult Conversations.
Explanation: Live a little. Take a risk. Push the envelope. Yes, it’s dangerous. Yes, it might even kill you. But, it will give you stories to tell your grandkids and who wants to die boring.
Nonprofits that just do what everyone else is doing are soon forgotten.
Explanation: There will always be problems that you cannot fix or would cost too much money, time, or effort to fix. They are almost always a blessing in disguise. Yes, this implies that you put some spin on it, but with thought, you will find the blessing.
Explanation: Those who don’t show up don’t participate. Most won’t. If you show up with an agenda, you will probably be the only one and can set the agenda and frame the issues. If you show up with a solution, you will definitely be the only one and you will determine the solution. Just be there.
Explanation: Slow down when emergencies happen. You cannot get yourself out of it if you are frozen in panic and screaming.
Air Force instructor pilots tell you to keep flying the airplane in emergencies. Do not panic. Wind the clock before shutting down an engine in flight. They also say, “It’s okay to scream ‘Mayday’, but don’t push the microphone button. Then slowly push the button and transmit the emergency two octaves lower.”